WHAT TO DO WHEN SOMEONE YOU KNOW HAS AN EATING DISORDER?
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Topic: Eating disorders
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Sort Desciption: Who Should do the Talking Friends and Roommates If you have a friend or a roommate that you think has an eating disorder (ED friend), its best if you talk to her or him first before going to professionals or to her or his family. ...
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Who Should do the Talking Friends and Roommates If you have a friend or a roommate that you think has an eating disorder (ED friend), its best if you talk to her or him first before going to professionals or to her or his family. The best person to intervene initially is someone who has a close relationship with the person with the eating disorder. If there are several people who are worried about the person who has the eating disorder, pick the one who has the best relationship with them. Before you talk to the ED friend, identify what your specific concerns are. What behaviors have you seen that concern you? Write them down for yourself ahead of time. Identify behaviors or signs you have seen. Also, think about the impact of these behaviors on your relationship with the ED friend. Write down thoughts and feelings you have as a result of the behaviors that are affecting your relationship with them. If you feel constantly frustrated, depressed, resentful, or angry about your ED friends behavior or difficulties, get help for yourself. This may also be helpful to your friend by setting an example. It will not be helpful for you to talk to your ED friend when you are having strong negative feelings. When to Talk Pick a time when you will not be interrupted. Talking before class, meetings or dates will increase your pressure, decreasing your ability to communicate. Choose a time when you can be calm. Please do not bring this up when you are angry, hurt or upset (see above). You need to stay focused on your concerns about your relationship with this person and why you think she or he needs help. Getting angry, confrontations, pleas and threats will shut down communication and she or he will end up being defensive about their food behavior. What to Say Using the thoughts you wrote down ahead of time, address the following things in your initial discussion. ...
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